5 Tantric Shifts to Better Sex, Desire, & Confidence, Without More Therapy or Performing
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What You'll Learn In This Masterclass
Why the woman you want doesn't want and desire you back, and why you're the one who can change that, even if you feel hopeless or lonely right now.
Why attraction responds to how you hold yourself and whether you get rattled when things get tense, which is the part most men don't work on.
How to stop needing a woman's approval and validation before you can relax, and how to say what you actually want without it turning into a fight.
What to do with shame about sex and anger you never said out loud, because until you look at them they come out as going cold or holding on too tight.
How to stay present in your body during sex instead of watching yourself from the outside, even if you finish sooner than you want or lose your erection.
What makes a change permanent, and why most men find the last solution they tried stopped working when they did it on their own.
No pitch during the video. At the end there's information about working with me if you want it.
Two Men Are Reading This, And They Don't Need The Same Thing
Click on the one that's you...
She doesn't have to take part.
You still kiss her goodbye in the morning.
She still asks how work was.
But she doesn't touch you any more, she never starts sex, and when you do there's always a reason it isn't tonight.
So you tried talking to her about sex.
It turned into an argument, or she went quiet, or she said she was tired and you both let it go.
Now you don't bring it up at all, because that's easier than getting turned down again.
And then there's the part you haven't said to anyone.
You're lying next to her at one in the morning asking yourself a question you never thought you'd be asking.
Is she just not attracted to me any more?
That question is doing more damage than the lack of sex is.
Something you can try this week, for free
Here's the thing nobody tells you.
Every time you touch her now, she knows where it's going, and so do you.
That's the pressure.
It's not that she doesn't want you.
It's that touch has turned into a question she has to answer, and answering it has got exhausting.
So take the question away.
Pick a fortnight.
Tell her, in daylight, when you're both dressed and nothing is about to happen, that for the next two weeks sex is off the table.
Not "probably not tonight."
Actually off, agreed in advance, both of you clear on it.
Then keep touching her as much as you already do.
It sounds like that would finish things off.
Most men find it does the opposite, because she can finally relax into being touched when there's nothing to decide at the end of it.
Try it.
It costs you nothing and you'll know inside a week whether I understand your marriage or not.
The masterclass is what comes after that, and why it works.
You don't have to fake confidence.
You see a woman you'd like to talk to and something in you locks up.
Or you get the dates and they go nowhere, and you can't work out what you keep doing wrong.
Maybe the thought of sleeping with someone brings its own worry.
Whether you'll last.
Whether you'll be able to get hard at all. Whether she's comparing you to someone else while it's happening.
And underneath all of it is the thought you don't say out loud, which is that maybe there's something wrong with you specifically.
Other men seem to manage this.
You've watched the videos and tried the apps and pushed yourself to be more confident, and you're still going home on your own.
Something you can try this week, for free
When you freeze, you're not short of things to say.
Your body has braced, and a braced body can't be charming.
So next time it happens, don't go hunting for a better opening line.
Put your weight down through your feet, let your shoulders drop, and breathe out longer than you breathed in.
Then say the most boring true thing in your head.
"That's a good looking dog."
"It's freezing out here."
The line doesn't matter.
What she's responding to is a man who isn't performing, and you can't perform and be relaxed at the same time.
Do that three times this week.
Nothing else.
See what changes.
The masterclass is why that works, and the four things that come after it.
What Men Say Who Started With This Masterclass
These men also did the program, but they all started with the masterclass.
- Austin's wife had asked him not to touch her without asking first. By the end she was crying in his arms saying she wanted to fight for the marriage.
- Brian hadn't had sex with his wife in 8 years, and she initiated sex herself four days in.
- Wade went from sex about once a month, which felt like a chore, to his wife wanting it five or six times a week.
- Chris went from not dating in years to 5 dates in 7 days, and a relationship with one of them.
- Thomas on his longest and best relationship: “we have fun, sex, we care. It's all I could have never dreamed of.”
- Victor had never dated in his life, and he finished the program with multiple dates and a girlfriend.
