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Austin Sams

“We went from a sexless marriage on the brink of divorce, to having emotionally healthy sex 3 times a week. I was just amazed at the change and how she responded differently.”

- Austin Sams, 35

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“Joining your program literally changed my life, and it’s one of the best decisions of my life. It completely changed my view on relationships. If you're on the fence, you will not regret it.”

- Moses Michalovich, 40

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“I only went on 1 date in my life, 5 years ago, now I have dated a few women and even had sex. It changed my whole life, my view on women, self-worth, and confidence. I turned 30 last year, and I feel like my life just started. That’s the difference it made for me.”

- Freddy Herre, 30

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“One girl I had 4-hour sex with texted me: 'That was the best sex I ever had.' Before your course, I didn’t get those responses.”

- James Hodges, 34

Alexander Taskov

From lack of trust and not feeling good enough, to her saying: 'You’re the man of my dreams and I want to move into the house together!'

- Aleksandar Taskov, 35

Transform Your Love Life With Tantra

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I'm Steffo Shambo, certified men's tantric relationship coach and founder of Tantric Academy.

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Mattia Zambaldi, Italy
Mattia Zambaldi Italy

“I feel a lot more energetic throughout the day. This is mainly thanks to my newly developed ability to master my sexual energy. I was also able to experience the healing power of sex, being able to let go of all traumas, to release energy blockages, and I’m experiencing something that if someone told me before, I would find it hard to believe, but hey, it’s possible.”

Aleksander Du Mats, Sweden
Aleksander Du Mats Sweden

“The longer we had sex, the more we started throbbing, I felt like my whole body was shaking. I started crying because a lot of blockages were releasing. It felt like I was on LSD pretty much. Everything was very bright and colorful. I was in shock for many days after, but also very happy.”

Will Simebor, USA
Will Simebor USA

“This definitely turned out to be one of the best decisions of my life. She said things like: ‘We’re together now because you did all these things, and I see the difference in you. I feel the difference in you. Our dynamic is so much more close than when we first met. We’ll joke now about how we’re back into the honeymoon phase.”

Dave More, UK
Dave More UK

“It’s like we’ve gone back to dating, but with this connection that comes out of a 6-year relationship. So it’s amazing. We’ve got that sort of understanding and love for each other, but that playful, flirty dating is there. And it’s a fantastic place to be right now.”

Zander Blunt, USA
Zander Blunt USA

“Half way through (the program) she could notice a difference in how I looked, how I acted, there’s was this sort of magnetism and curiosity. I suddenly was getting in tuned with different energies and frequencies in the body. Before joining the program I did a lot of therapy. It would help me keep sane, but it wasn’t tackling the core problem.”

Jake Frankel, USA
Jake Frankel USA

“I believed I would never find a woman, so for the past 10 years I did not go on any dates. What happened though the program was a transformation about my personal view of my life, sexuality, relationships, and intimacy. And I ended up going on 3 dates with 3 different women.”

Jacob Reid, USA
Jacob Reid USA

“Attending the Tantric Man Experience is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made, and that’s coming from someone who’s spent well over $100,000 healing himself over a decade. Women look at me differently, I am more confident, more horny, more masculine, more yogic, more disciplined, more loving, and more clear on my mission, all as a result of this program.”

Felix Grimberg, Israel
Felix Grimberg Israel

“Me and my wife had a great lovemaking session where we felt like we became one. You can’t explain it in words. It’s beyond a bodily experience. And me and my wife were able to move the energy up to the heart. I was shaking, she was shaking, it was something different we never experienced before. It’s all due to all the exercises in the program.”

James Hodges, USA
James Hodges USA

“Now, I dated a few women and had success, especially taking the lead in the bedroom. One of them told me: “That was the best sex I ever had. No one has ever done that to me,” and another one told me that was the first time she had a squirting orgasm. One girl I had 4-hour sex with texted me that she is addicted and craves me. Before your course, I didn’t get those responses.”

Moses Michalovich, Israel
Moses Michalovich Israel

“Joining TME literally changed my life, and it’s one of the best decisions of my life. The program completely changed my view on relationships, and is the most comprehensive, deepest programs. You’ll not regret it. It will be the most significant self-improvement task you have achieved. And I’ve retained my semen for 33 days while having tons of sex and self-pleasure.”

Jon Mizuno, Japan
Jon Mizuno Japan

“My relationship with my wife has transformed into something completely unexpected. It’s not only that her feminine energy can sense the change in me. I think she sees that I see myself changing, and because of that, I’m taking control of my own energy and learning to cultivate it. This experience has flipped my perspective of sex and love on its head.”

Victor Leme, Brazil
Victor Leme Brazil

“I went on 6 dates with 4 women in 9 weeks without feeling afraid of rejection anymore. And I was able to sex-chat and receive nude pics. I feel full of confidence and energy. I feel I can do anything, I can shape my own life like a superhero. This is invaluable, now I can be authentically myself, no pick-up artist tricks or manipulations.”

Jamie McConochie, UK
Jamie McConochie UK

“I’ve noticed already, things are happening in my life, things are falling into place – It almost seems like magic! Every day I can activate this superhuman power inside of me. Full of energy, confidence, and vitality. […] I was able to ride through her orgasm while she had her climax and I was still good.”

Patrick McCarthy, Canada
Patrick McCarthy Canada

“I am now multi-orgasmic. I have always been curious and open-minded about energy. But I’ve always put it aside like these people are special. Never did I think that I could be one of them. Now, I’m able to stop my ejaculation and prolong it. When I’m going to cum I can just take a breath and let my body automatically start moving energy.”

Thomas Schirnhofer, Austria
Thomas Schirnhofer Austria

“I had a successful date a few days ago, accomplished by the The Tantric Man Experience. The date I was having really stood out to be just what I imagined. It was exactly what I wanted to manifest! From the practices I got from TME, I had en easy time manifesting her. I’m super excited and happy about myself that I got this to work!”

Michael Coussement, Netherlands
Michael Coussement Netherlands

“It was very clear that if something didn’t change, we would just get a divorce. But the good news is that we decided to stay together and commit, so we’re transitioning back to living together. The results of this program were immediate. After week one, I noticed how I showed up differently, and my wife noticed that, too. During week three, she would lean more into me.”

Aad Havermans, Netherlands
Aad Havermans Netherlands

“During the sexual shadow work, I found out that my sexual issues were linked to some very early childhood patterns. And this totally made me understand how I had built up this toxic pattern. This program is not only about sex and lovemaking, but it’s also a deep inner journey.”

Austin Sams, USA
Austin Sams USA

“By the end of the 9 weeks, we hit a breakthrough out of nowhere. I was doing the hard work and she was noticing that. She said: “Hey, I don’t know why I feel this way, but I want to have sex with you. In the last week, we ended up having sex 3 times in one week. And it was different sex, it was good sex that was emotionally healthy for both of us. I was just amazed at the change.”

Aleksander, Slovenia
Aleksander Slovenia

“I had impactful results even from day one and didn’t know how it could be possible. She also noticed that. I started on Saturday, and on Sunday, I already reported that something had changed in my relationship. I felt very good; she was a completely different woman beside me. The polarity made an immediate shift.”

Patrik Wall, Sweden
Patrik Wall Sweden

“For me it meant a paradigm shift in life, both mentally and in practice. How to understand being a masculine man in a relationship and at the same time a loving and understanding partner, who can meet my woman on the same level where she is, to be relaxed and happy. Doing this course was life-changing!”

Ula, Aleksander’s Partner
Ula Aleksander’s Partner

“I was pretty sure that if nothing changes, this is not gonna work. And then you found this amazing group. Things started to change from the day one. I feel much safer, I trust you, and I started to enjoy the lovemaking. Now I believe that you are really the man of my dreams so that we can move into the house together!”

Nick Salandra, USA
Nick Salandra USA

“I struggled with sexual stamina and wanted control over when I ejaculated. Before your program, it was inconsistent. Now, I can tap into my energy body, control my mind, and redirect energy through my practice. This was a priority, and after years of struggle, I finally made a change.”

Freddy Herre, Austria
Freddy Herre Austria

“I only went on 1 date in my life 5 years ago, now I have dated a few women and even had sex. It changed my whole life, my view on women, self-worth, and self-confidence. I turned 30 last year, and I feel like my life has just started. That’s the difference it made for me.”

Does This Sound Like You?

  • Has the passion disappeared, leaving you feeling like distant roommates instead of lovers?
  • Do you feel stuck in rejection and loneliness, craving intimacy and connection?
  • Does fear of vulnerability or shame and guilt stop you from forming deep relationships?
  • Are you relying on porn, alcohol, or distractions to fill the void but still feel empty?
  • Do old patterns and wounds keep sabotaging your relationships and intimacy?
  • AND are you terrified of ending up alone or losing the one you love most?

And if any of that sounds like you, watch the free training to start fixing it tonight.

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Here’s How I Work With Men

Hey, I’m Steffo, and I help men like you heal old patterns and change how you show up with the woman you want.

We work on five areas at once: mental, emotional, sexual, energetic and spiritual.

These five areas are all connected, shaping how you think, feel, and show up in your relationships. If even one’s out of whack, it can keep you stuck in those same frustrating patterns.

So we go after what’s underneath rather than the symptoms, and that’s what makes it hold. 👇

🧠 Level 1: Rewire Your Love Script

Most men arrive knowing something is off and unable to name it. Level one is finding the thing you keep doing that you can’t see, usually some version of needing her approval before you can relax. It’s older than the relationship. Once you can name it, you stop doing it by accident.
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The Tantric Man Experience

- My Signature Coaching Program

As the founder of the Tantric Academy, I’ve coached over 600 men in nine years, with 1,500 hours of certified training in India and Thailand behind it.

My work has been in VICE, MSN, The Sun and AskMen. My program, The Tantric Man Experience™, is built on the Tantric Man Method, which I put together over 15 years.

I keep each group small, because every man gets direct access to me and I won’t water that down.

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Get Started On Your
Tantra Transformation Today

With one of the following free resources.

How to Work With Me

Step 1:
Watch Video Training

Watch the free 45-minute masterclass to discover what blind spots are holding you back in your marriage, relationship, and dating life.

Step 2:
Apply For A Spot

Read about The Tantric Man Experience™ and submit your application. Takes less than 5 minutes. We'll review your answers within 72 hours.

Step 3:
Transform Your Love Life

We’ll take you through the nine weeks step by step until you’re having the sex and closeness you want.

Real Men, Real Results


Trusted by 
600 men worldwide who stopped chasing approval and changed what happens in the bedroom.

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You May Have Some Questions...

What do you actually help men with?

Married men whose wife stopped wanting sex, and single guys who keep going to bed alone. It's the same thing underneath, which is why they end up in the same group. I'm a men's relationship coach and I've taken over 600 men through this over 9 years. The work is on you and how you carry yourself, because that's the only part of it you control.

Are you a therapist?

No, and I'm careful about the difference. I'm a coach with 1,500 hours of certified training in India and Thailand and 15 years of my own practice, but I'm not licensed and I don't treat mental illness. Plenty of the men I work with see a therapist at the same time and I think that's a good thing. If what's going on is medical or clinical, start with your doctor or the AASECT referral directory.

Do I need to be into tantra for this to work?

No. A good number of the men in my groups are practicing Christians and plenty of the rest aren't spiritual at all. You won't be asked to believe anything. The practices are physical and they work the same either way.

Does my wife have to be part of this?

No. She doesn't have to take part and she doesn't have to know you're doing it. Most men wait for her to come around first, drop a few hints, and then nothing happens for months. You build attraction by how you act, so you can start tonight on your own. The free masterclass covers the first piece.