Penis Praise: It Is Enough (why is my penis size so small?)

Steffo Shambo

Updated on Jun 7, 2024
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My penis size and I are enough

Finally, an extensive blog post and statement for all the penises around the world. We have seen a lot posted lately about accepting women’s bodies, curves, breasts, and vaginas. Which is freaking great!

But easy to forget is that men also have a hard time with body image.

Did you know that the number one thing men are most self-conscious about is penis size? Of being too small.

Which can result in lifelong masculine disempowerment. Since these thoughts translate to not being good enough and give low sexual confidence resulting in lesser confidence in general. Not to mention being self-conscious about nakedness around women and comparison with other naked men.

Our naked bodies are the most natural thing there is. Humans have to be pretty screwed up when we are not being able to be happy and comfortable with our own naked selves.

Can you stand in the mirror and say “I love my body just as it is” or “I’m Enough”, without feeling somewhere deep down that you are faking the words?

Small penis mental anxiety

I recently talked to this good-looking guy who experienced a size complex.

Even though he had normal size penis, he was teased in school about being small (you know in that way all boys and teenagers are with each other).

And suddenly it got stuck in his mind, and that led him to be super anxious and shy around women.

To an extent that he rather not approach women at all to “stay safe”. And it took him a decade to figure out that actually, he was not small-sized as he had made himself believe, and to recover his confidence as a sexual man.

So there he was an adult man with only one relationship in his entire life and a total of 3 lovers, ever. And something in him become aware of the situation and he finally decided to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!


Luckily, there are many ways to go about and reclaim our lost and latent sexual power. It’s better to do it sooner than later. The longer men wait to deal with sexual issues the longer men live life half-baked.


The tremendous power sexual freedom store is repressed until then. And when it’s set free it can be utilized in all areas of life:

  • Business,
  • work,
  • energy,
  • relationship,
  • personal traits and
  • fuel for goals and purpose as a man.


Boost your confidence, master your sexuality, and find your purpose.

So you can reignite the passion in your relationship or attract your perfect woman.

,My penis size is enough on a mental level

We can work on a mental level with accepting ourselves as we are; make us believe we are enough.

Enough in our uniqueness.

Cultivating sexual confidence with ourselves and with women.

Just like these brave men did in Me And My Penis – when the allowed themselves to be vulnerable to be photographed and interviewed.

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Photograph: Laura Dodsworth


My penis size is enough on a physical level

On a physical level, we can acquire sexual skill-sets.

Most women would agree that it’s not about the size, but about the technique in bed, body awareness, and energy control.

Something that anybody can learn if you have the right tools and knowledge.

Also under physical level come penis enhancement – did you know it’s possible to naturally enhance your manhood?

Time tested methods such as the jelqing technique, penis pumps will increase the blood flow to your private parts.

And that will help to increase:

Something that is mostly dismissed today since our bullshit-radar goes up after being bombarded with all the snake oil salesmen’s spam emails.

It took me many years to accumulate a formula that actually works on all the levels – from physical to mental.

I empower men to master all these aspects in my mentorship program.

You are enough and you are not alone

This beautiful article, Me And My Penis – 100 Men Reveal All, illustrates how very common men’s sexual issues are today, here are what some say:

I didn’t have sex until I was 21. I wanted to before that, but every time I got close, I went, “Ah, she’s going to discover my penis is so small.”


“What surprised her {the author} most? “A lot more men feel a sense of shame or anxiety about their size, or an aspect of their performance, than I would have thought. What really moved me is how much that shame and inadequacy had bled into different parts of their life.” She says many were teased as children about their penis and never recovered from it.”

So if you are reading and resonating with this, know that you are not alone.

If you want to increase your penis size naturally, check out my Lingam Yoga: Natural Penis Enlargement Course.

Where you will learn natural methods to last longer in bed and grow your penis strong.

Without having to supplement with aphrodisiac herbs or manly food.



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Steffo Shambo

Steffo Shambo

Men's Tantric Relationship Coach

I am the founder of The Tantric Man Experience™, a pioneering transformational coaching program for men. With over 1500 hours of certified tantra training in India and Thailand and 7 years of experience helping hundreds of men worldwide save their marriages and reignite passion in their love lives.

I have over 8 million views on YouTube and have been featured on VICE and Newstalk Radio for my life’s work - helping men unleash their full masculine potential.

My holistic FLT method seamlessly integrates ancient tantric philosophy with my modern expertise in relationships, sexuality, dating, and men’s health.

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