Making the First Move – How Men Can Be More Confident

Steffo Shambo

Updated on Aug 11, 2023
making the first move

Do you ever find yourself in situations where you want to ask a girl on a date, but you back out last minute?

No matter how socially confident a man is, making the first move can be challenging.

It’s hard because most of us were never taught to be more confident around women.

How would you feel if we told you there was something you could do straight away to be more confident when talking to women?

Keep reading to find out:

1. Practice eye contact

Practice making eye contact with women in public settings, such as at work or a restaurant. If you see a pretty girl you like, look her in the eye and smile. If she smiles back, then go talk to her!

2. Be aware of your body language

Your body language matters a great deal. A girl will subconsciously notice your body language, and if you don’t look confident, how do you expect her to take you seriously?

The best way to overcome this is by practicing tantric yoga moves, which allow you to gain overall bodily control and develop masculine energy!

3. Work on your humor

Humor is very important to break the ice and create a connection. If a man can make a woman laugh, she’ll be more likely to give him her contact or say yes to going on a date with him.

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4. Be yourself

The most important tip is to be yourself and not try to be someone else. This means being comfortable in your own skin, even if you’re shy at first. Try tantric yoga and meditation that can help you regain confidence as you get a chance to explore your inner self and achieve internal peace.

If you act awkward or act like it should be a big deal, you might make the girl uncomfortable or look like you’re trying too hard to impress her. Relax and let her know that you just want to get to know her and see where things go from there.


Boost your confidence, master your sexuality, and find your purpose.

So you can reignite the passion in your relationship or attract your perfect woman.

5. Take care of your body

When your body is healthy, you’ll have more confidence to approach the girl you like. A healthy lifestyle like tantric yoga will help boost your testosterone levels naturally so that you feel more energetic and confident. Also, as you get fitter, you’ll be less self-conscious about approaching women.

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Steffo Shambo

Steffo Shambo

Men's Tantric Relationship Coach

Steffo Shambo is the founder of The Tantric Man Experience. The #1 masculine mentorship program in the world, where he’s helping men master confidence, sexuality, & purpose to reignite the passion in their relationship or attract a meaningful relationship. He’s on a mission to spread a conscious sexual revolution for men worldwide so that they can show up as integrated partners, fathers, and leaders.

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