What Is a Leo Woman in Bed Like? 7 Secrets for the Best Sex

Steffo Shambo

Published on Sep 29, 2023
leo woman in bed

Minds blown, sheets tangled, panties and bra hanging on the side… That’s a snippet of what a Leo woman in bed is like.

You see, a Leo woman’s sex drive is like a Ferrari–built for exhilarating performance.

She doesn’t just stick to the sidewalk. Pole vaults and cartwheels are included. Experimental? You bet.

She’s almost like the Elon Musk of the bedroom because she’s down to push the boundaries of sexual pleasure.

Now, let’s not get it twisted. This lioness is more than just adventurous. She’s a passionate ringmaster in the circus of love.

It’s not just sex, it’s an intimate act where she’ll do what it takes for a five-star performance.

So fellas, congrats if you’ve got the interest of a Leo woman. You’re in for a thrilling uphill ride!

What is a leo woman in bed like?

Leo is a zodiac sign ruled by the fiery sun.

Women under the Leo zodiac sign are passionate lovers who focus more on romance in the bedroom.

They’re confident with an adventurous spirit.

But rather than just bending over and letting their man mindlessly bang them, a Leo woman is conscious of building emotional intimacy with their partner.

After all, Leos is in no rush to get in bed with just about anyone. She’ll choose the person she wants to be with.

And she’ll be eager to explore the connection between her and her partner before losing the panties to ensure a deeply satisfying experience.

7 sexual traits of leo women that you need to know

Here are the main sexual personality traits of a Leo woman in bed:

  • High libido
  • Aggressive and embodies bedroom confidence
  • The spirit of an adventurer
  • Emotional connection and intimacy
  • She’s a people pleaser
  • She loves verbal communication
  • Dominance and control

1. High libido

The defining characteristic of a Leo woman is her high libido. When passionate about her partner, she’s ready to go in for the kill and do her thing.

Leo women are open to trying various sex positions. This includes a few positions that are foreign to her.

Regardless, they’re determined to discover new experiences and explore beyond their horizons to keep the passion alive with their partner.

Gently massage her erogenous zones to ignite her fiery passion. Light touches, caresses, and kisses on her sensitive areas will also do the trick.

But, more on that later on in this article.

2. Aggressive and embodies bedroom confidence

Leo women are aggressive and incredibly confident in the bedroom. This is a trait that makes them irresistible to their partners.

Their confidence comes from their natural dominance and desire for excitement and adventure in their sexual encounters.

Want to ignite a spark between you and a Leo woman in bed? Then, whisper sweet nothings into her ear. You’re in for a treat when you make her feel confident and desired!

leo women are lionesses who embody bedroom confidence

3. The spirit of an adventurer

Venturing out into the wild is at the heart of a Leo woman’s love life.

Leos are not one to settle down for routine sex.

The classic sex positions like missionary and cowgirl are amazing, but the least a Leo woman would want is to keep doing the same repetitive actions.

That’s why I would suggest adding a twist using these top sex moves to drive her wild.

Even if a Leo woman is married early, she would still like to take risks and push boundaries to keep the spark as strong as ever.

4. Emotional connection and intimacy

Above all, Leo women value intimacy in the bedroom.

A lack of deep emotional connection means less or no fulfilling sexual experiences. That’s why matching her energy is essential.

Be open-minded, complimentary, and attentive to her emotional needs.

Before taking the belt off your jeans, nurture the passion with your Leo partner for a sexual experience that knocks it out of the park!


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5. She’s a people pleaser

Generous, kind-hearted, and compassionate… Those are a few words that sum up what a Leo woman is like.

That’s also why they naturally want to please people and be at their service.

At the same time, Leo women will have high expectations not just for herself but for the people she chooses to surround herself with.

This is especially true for a romantic partner because she wants to ensure they both have a thrilling climax each time they have sex.

For that reason, it’s also why they love having your full attention.

Partners should anticipate her needs before she states them. Be mindful of displays of physical affection to turn her on and keep her satisfied.

6. She loves verbal communication

Leo women have a strong love for verbal communication. They may not look it, but they are pretty verbal people.

Although they love compliments and even dirty talk, they can usually tell when you’re forcing it.

So, it’s vital to acknowledge their strong intellect and rich imagination. Be thoughtful of your words and use verbal communication to carve the path of passionate love.

Engaging in dirty talk and other forms of verbal communication can add excitement and passion to your sexual encounters.

A few different ways to add spice in the bedroom aside from making them feel desired and adored is rough sex.

Moreover, Leo women strongly desire to pleasure their partners. Yet, it was found in a study that less than 60% of men open up about their sexual needs or concerns.

less than 60 percent of men open up about their sexual concerns to their partner

7. Dominance and control

Let’s make one thing clear: Leo women are natural leaders who like to take control. This remains true in and outside the bedroom.

Since Leos are natural leaders, they have an assertive and dominant nature. They’re not afraid to openly express their desires and take the lead.

When setting out to achieve a goal, they’ll do what needs to be done. It’s no different when it comes to sexual satisfaction and pleasure.

Whether or not you’re a Leo man yourself, a Leo woman will feel confident she’s found the right match when you appreciate their leadership qualities.

All that said, don’t be afraid to let a Leo woman take the lead. You should allow her to feel in control. Let her explore her fantasies with you!

leo women like to take control

How to turn on a leo woman: top seduction tips

Now that you understand the unique sexual traits of a Leo woman, it’s time to learn how to turn her on and seduce her. In short, here’s how:

  • Show her you’re open-minded
  • Add a tint of spontaneity to your plans
  • Give her meaningful compliments
  • Physical touch: stimulate her erogenous zones
  • Indulge in role-play and fantasies
  • Allow her to take complete control
  • Give her your full undivided attention
  • Match her fiery energy

Show her you’re open-minded

Are you not the adventurous type?

Well, these lionesses are all about pushing boundaries and discovering new terrains of pleasure. If you’re not on the same page as her, it affects the dynamic of the relationship.

Leo women want to be with someone they can enjoy life with whom they can explore new experiences together.

Going against this is like going to a five-star buffet but only eating bread, that’s how a Leo woman feels with a close-minded partner.

Showing her you’re open-minded means adding a sense of unpredictability in your plans.

This should be related to her deepest desires to send a clear message that you’re personally invested in her pleasure.

And guess what? She’ll reciprocate that back tenfold.

Add a tint of spontaneity to your plans

Maintaining a thrilling, unpredictable, and intriguing relationship with a Leo woman hinges on spontaneity.

She is drawn to partners who can surprise her and keep her on her toes.

Show her you’re as excited as she is by trying new activities, surprising her with romantic gestures, or taking her on unexpected adventures.

This level of spontaneity, which generally eager individuals possess, will undoubtedly capture her heart and keep her interested and engaged.


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Give her meaningful compliments

Leo women love to be praised. It’s powerful enough to seduce her and win her attraction.

In other words, show her you admire her. Make genuine compliments about something she cares about and puts a lot of effort into.

Here are a few tips to compliment a Leo woman:

  • Make her feel good about herself by acknowledging her beauty, strengths, and intelligence.
  • Focus on the unique qualities that she likes about herself.
  • Be just as mindful when it comes to how you deliver the compliment.
  • Express your appreciation for her.
  • Show her you’re grateful through gifts and acts of service.

Physical touch: stimulate her erogenous zones

Touch her erogenous zones. This is mainly located in her spine. Other sensitive areas include her neck and inner thighs.

With that in mind, giving her a back massage is one way to turn her on. I recommend going for a full-body tantric massage.

However, you can pour more of your focus on massaging her back since it’s where her erogenous zones are.

Use light touches, caresses, and kisses to stimulate her sensitive areas. A bonus tip is creating the right atmosphere to amplify the sexual experience.

gently touch her back to stimulate her erogenous zone

Indulge in role-play and fantasies

Leos are adventurous beings. Besides being creative, They strongly desire to go beyond the norms to seek novel experiences.

Therefore, indulging in some role-play isn’t a bad idea. Allowing a Leo woman to express her wildest fantasies will spark the fire inside her.

This is key to arousing her and experiencing more intense orgasms.  

Allow her to take complete control

Not letting your pride get in the way of your relationship with a Leo woman is a big turn-on.

Since generosity is a big part of their personality type, they’ll appreciate it when they can see you and let them take the lead occasionally.

Let her take the spotlight. However, show her that you’re enthusiastic about it.

Otherwise, she won’t feel desired even if you allow her to control. And this can make her go from dripping her panties to dry like the Sahara desert.

Give her your full undivided attention

Leo women crave attention. She wants to feel desired. More importantly, she wants to feel valued as a leader.

Be highly attentive to the things she does and says to show her how much you appreciate her.

Show her you’re paying attention to all the extensive and intricate details to bring out her inner romance. Make yourself emotionally available to her.

Here are a few more tips for giving her your full attention:  

  • Stay present in the moment during your time together
  • Let her know what you like most about her
  • Remind her of her strengths
  • Plan dates or give her spontaneous surprises to make her feel special
  • Be supportive of her goals and ambitions

Match her fiery energy

Be just as passionate and enthusiastic as she is.

Now, there’s only so much enthusiasm you can try to fake. Putting this up as a front gets draining.

Believe me, I know. That’s why having your own goals and ambitions is just as important.

One of the biggest turn-ons for a Leo woman is seeing a man just as hungry as she is. She loves seeing the passion burning in your eyes.

It makes her feel that she has someone that she can relate to.

How to attract and build a strong relationship with a leo woman

Here’s how to attract a Leo woman:

  • Show her your utmost loyalty and respect
  • Thoughtful messages and deep conversations
  • Be kind and compassionate
  • Show her you’re a leader

Attracting a Leo woman is about striking the right balance between assertiveness and letting her take the lead.

Too much assertiveness prevents her from letting out her natural leadership qualities.

However, letting her take the lead all the time can lead to codependency and being needy. These can make a Leo woman feel less attracted to you as a man.

Below, I’ll go through exactly what you must do to build a lasting relationship with Leo women.

Show her your utmost loyalty and respect

Regardless of the zodiac sign, loyalty and trust are the cornerstones of any relationship.

Leo women are also known for their loyalty and trustworthiness. This also means she’ll expect the same qualities in her partner.

Honesty will help build trust. Speaking with her openly and sharing your plans will show you’re reliable.

However, be consistent in your actions. Words mean a lot, but actions mean more.

honesty will help build trust

A lack of trust can grow into negative patterns of behavior. The most common development of low levels of trust is romantic suspicions and envy, according to studies.

Thoughtful messages and deep conversations

All healthy relationships require good communication.

Part of a healthy relationship includes making your partner feel valued.

That’s where thoughtful messages make a significant impact. Even something as simple as telling her you love her vibe and music taste would go a long way.

Moreover, Leo women love deep conversations.

Talk about something close to her heart to show her you’re genuinely interested in her.

Be willing to share your thoughts and acknowledge what she says when she opens up to you. For example, tell her how brave and courageous she is for making certain decisions.

Be kind and compassionate

Generosity is a quality Leo women strongly value. Why? Because they’re generous beings themselves.

A Leo woman will appreciate it when they see you’re willing to go the extra mile to make her happy.

They love knowing you’re emotionally invested in building a relationship with them. So, do nice things that make her feel special.

Treat others around you nicely, too. Show her the type of person you are. Just don’t be a douchebag. Nothing puts a woman off more than a guy that treats people like sh*t.

Show her you’re a leader

Yes, Leo women are natural leaders. But that doesn’t mean she’s a crutch to rely on.

You should also be capable of taking the lead yourself. Otherwise, it could put her off since you might show signs of mommy issues.

However, don’t just overshadow her. Balance is key. Be assertive when you need to, and know when to step back.

Top 3 signs that a leo woman is into you

Here are the top 3 signs that a Leo woman is romantically interested in you:

  • She gives you lots of attention and praise
  • Her playful nature comes out when she’s with you
  • She makes plans for the two of you

Notice any of these signs? Well, that’s good news!

Recognizing some of these signs might be challenging. So, I’ll break each of these down for you below.

She gives you lots of attention and praise

Does she shower you with compliments? Or does she often ask questions about your personal life because she wants to get to know you better?

These are good signs!

When a Leo woman is into you, she’ll do her best to show you that you’re special to her.

You mean a lot, and she’ll want to express that affection through her words. She’ll also express sexual interest through body language.

Her playful nature comes out when she’s with you

Excessive laughter and playfulness are strong indicators that a Leo woman likes you. It means she enjoys being with you.

More importantly, she trusts you and feels comfortable enough to be carefree around you.

If you notice her constantly cracking jokes, it’s a sign she loves making you laugh. And for good reason: she could be into you!

she is touchy playful and always laughs when she is with you

She makes plans for the two of you

When a Leo woman is interested in you, she will often:

  • Take the lead in the relationship
  • Make plans for dates
  • Initiate conversations
  • Go out of her way to make time for you
  • Make you feel valued and appreciated

If she is taking the initiative and actively pursuing you, it’s a clear sign that she is interested in building a relationship with you.

How to make any leo woman feel special

Lastly, I’ll share a few more tips to keep the spark going with any Leo woman:

  • Give her emotional support
  • Try new things with her
  • Send her personalized gifts

Even after understanding her unique sexual traits, you can do a few more things to keep the passion alive.

Give her emotional support

Emotional support and understanding are essential to keep the passion alive.

Listen to her with enthusiasm, be patient, and show her you care about her wellbeing.

It’s common for couples to put in less effort as time goes on. In reality, it should be the opposite. Make her feel special. Treat your time together like when you’re on a first date.

Try new things with her

Leo women love to experiment. I’ve mentioned that earlier in this article. But here’s the thing: she’d love to try new things together.

Adventures are more fun when you’re with a significant other. Someone you love, trust, and enjoy being with.

Send her personalized gifts

Here are a few examples of personalized gifts:

  • Handwritten letters or poems
  • Custom accessories and jewelry
  • Photo collage

Give her a gift that’s meaningful to her. It could be something to do with your favorite memory together or something to do with her passions and interests.


If you’ve ever dreamed of taming the fierce Leo woman in bed, you’re now armed with insider tips.

Everything discussed in this article is pretty much the relationship equivalent of a cheat code.

Don’t just be open-minded. Be the adventurer that even Indiana Jones would tip his hat to.

And roll out that emotional support like it’s the VIP section at a rock concert. Nothing matters more to a Leo woman than feeling wanted by their man.

So, make her feel beautiful and appreciated by showering her with praise to unleash her fiery spirit in the bedroom!

But if you want to rewrite the rules instead of playing the game by:

  • Having an aura that she can’t help but notice each time you enter the room
  • Making her naturally want to win your approval
  • Blow her brains out in the bedroom by harnessing your sexual energy for a masterful performance

Then watch my free attraction masterclass to become an integrated king.

You’ll unveil the secrets to attracting Leo women left and right, including natural techniques to make her crave you.

Catch you on the other side, Casanova! 🚀


Is a leo female good in bed?

Leo women are amazing in bed because of their adventurous spirit, confidence, and enthusiasm.

Plus, they’re people pleasers. This means that they’re motivated to satisfy their partners and reach climax.

What turns a Leo woman on in bed?

Build up an emotional connection with her before getting to the main event. Make her feel valued and desired.

Seduce her by holding strong eye contact and showing her the masculine leader you are.

What are leos attracted to physically?

Leo women are physically attracted to a well-groomed man who knows how to dress and take care of himself.

This calls to the Leo personality type because seeing a man respect his own appearance indicates a degree of leadership.

What is the energy of a leo woman?

Leo is the element of fire. This means a Leo woman is passionate, energetic, and competitive.

They’re highly disciplined and self-motivated to get things done. For many, this is a charm that makes them irresistible.


Boost your confidence, master your sexuality, and find your purpose.

So you can reignite the passion in your relationship or attract your perfect woman.

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Steffo Shambo

Men's Tantric Relationship Coach

I am the founder of The Tantric Man Experience™, a pioneering transformational coaching program for men. With over 1500 hours of certified tantra training in India and Thailand and 7 years of experience helping hundreds of men worldwide save their marriages and reignite passion in their love lives.

I have over 8 million views on YouTube and have been featured on VICE and Newstalk Radio for my life’s work - helping men unleash their full masculine potential.

My holistic FLT method seamlessly integrates ancient tantric philosophy with my modern expertise in relationships, sexuality, dating, and men’s health.

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