Energy Orgasm: 5 Steps To Have A Tantric Full Body Orgasm

Steffo Shambo

January 27, 2026

Energy Orgasm

Picture this:
A transformative, life-force-filled experience that goes beyond the physical realm…
A moment of bliss that transcends the ordinary…
A journey into the subtle layers of your energy body.

Welcome to the powerful world of tantric full-body energy orgasm — a path that unveils the deepest wisdom of presence, connection, and inner fulfillment. It sits at the far end of what is possible in tantric sex, and it is worth understanding the foundations first.

Together, we will explore a profound awakening process that expands your sensitivity to energy, consciousness, and intimacy. The goal here isn’t just pleasure — it’s awareness.

What is a full-body energy orgasm?

🤓 To all the science nerds out there, here's a study from PubMed describing energy orgasms:

"To report the case of a 33-year-old woman who developed the ability to attain and control the duration of a subjective orgasmic state without genital stimulation after tantric training. Prolactin surges after orgasm are an objective marker of orgasm quality. The increase in prolactin after her non-genitally stimulated orgasm indicates that they induce the same physiological changes as genitally stimulated orgasms and result from “top-down” processing in the brain."

The main distinction between a sexual orgasm and an energy orgasm comes from limitations.

A regular peak orgasm is limited to feeling pleasure in one part of the body (i.e., the genitals).

An energetic orgasm is not.

Instead, it is an expansive feeling that can be felt throughout the whole body.

Whatsmore?

It can, but doesn’t have to be part of an intimate encounter.

A person is left feeling ecstatic and light-headed. It’s a sort of natural high.

This can be a powerful sensation.

When strong, it consists of multiple orgasms.

It covers the expanse of your whole being.

All the 5 ‘bodies.’

It can also be much more subtle.

The range varies a great deal.

Someone might experience a subtle energy orgasm one day.

The following is a very strong one.

To experience this, it’s necessary to develop your sense of orgasmic perception.

You need to think and feel from a new perspective.

The Five Bodies of Yoga

To get started, you should understand The 5 ‘bodies’ of yoga called Pancha Kosha and

The five layers consist of:

  1. Physical body. 
  2. Energetic body. 
  3. Emotional body. 
  4. Mental body. 
  5. Spiritual body.

All five are superimposed on top of each other.

The physical and the energetic compose the whole body.

Whilst the emotional and mental compose the subtle body.

The spiritual is the cosmic body – the most refined.

Energy can originate from and move through any of these bodies. 

To experience and feel this energy?

We first need to train ourselves to see things from a new perspective.

Redefining what an orgasm is

Most of us are familiar with the traditional orgasmic experience.

A 5-20 second orgasm.

Centralized to a single part of the body.

It is a feeling of a quick release, followed by sleepiness and energy loss.

We must broaden the limited goal of intimacy to include more subtle and pleasurable sensations.

Such sensations may not necessarily come to mind when thinking of an orgasm.

They might include the goosebumps you feel when caressed lightly.

Or perhaps a whisper near the ear.

But these sensations don’t have to be physical.

Think about the experience of witnessing the sunset on a tropical island for the first time.

You must first decrease your thirst for overstimulation to increase your sensitivity to subtle sensations.

The modern world has produced this with the amount of instant gratification available to us at the push or tap of a button.

Mindfulness practices such as meditation can help a great deal with this.

Once you have increased the sensitivity of the energetic body, it is time to move on to the physical.

Kegel exercises can help with this as they strengthen the pelvic floor.

Having a strong pelvic floor is essential for overall health and function, as well as for any type of energy work. 

Cast aside your previous assumptions about orgasm.

Realize that an orgasmic, ecstatic experience can be separate from a sexual experience.

Of course, life-force energy can also be involved in an energy orgasm.

The two are not mutually exclusive.

What I want to do with this article is dispel your beliefs about sex being a necessary precursor for an orgasm.

Although they certainly can and DO happen simultaneously, they don’t have to.

The female orgasm vs the energy orgasm

For a man, an energy orgasm is quite unlike any sexual orgasm he will ever have.

For a woman, an energy orgasm is similar in essence and flavor to that of a G-spot orgasm.

It’s just without quite so many muscle contractions.

More mystical than other kinds of female orgasms, the G-spot orgasm is an ecstatic experience.

Also, the energy orgasm is blissful and spiritual.

a mini orgasm can come from every pleasurable sensation in life

Know thyself – know your energy centers

Want to enter a new chapter of your orgasmic life?

If so, you must first learn at least the basics of your sexual blueprint and the chakras.

This won’t just help you to experience energy orgasms.

It will heighten energetic sensitivity throughout your entire body.

Knowledge of the chakras will help to increase your bodily awareness in all directions.

To someone who wishes to practice sacred sexuality either with or without a partner – sensitivity to energy is of paramount importance.

Much of the time, during lovemaking, we are so focused on achieving orgasm that we miss out on all of the subtleties of sexual pleasure.

With the destination of a screaming full-body orgasm as our goal, we pay very little attention to the little delights along the way.

The basics of the chakra system

The chakras can be understood partially by scientific explanation.

This is because energy centers are located in cardinal points throughout the body.

These points are all locations where nerve bundles happen to merge.

Thus, all of these points on the body

  • (a) have more comparative active neural energy and
  • (b) are located where we are physically tied to or “feel” strong emotions.

For example, a headache in the forehead, arousal in the genitalia, fear in the stomach, etc.

Several books have been written about the chakra system.

Many with contradicting information.

The books I have found to be most accurate to yogic tradition are unfortunately not the most popular in bookshops.

These include:

  • Chakras by Harish Johari.
  • The Serpent Power by Arthur Avalon.

These books provide a detailed insight into the Chakras.

The most important thing to know about chakras is their location and how they “feel” in the body.

First and foremost, a common misperception is that the chakras are located in the spine.

The spine actually houses an energy channel called “Sushumna Nadi.”

Sushumna Nadi is more or less “the central energy channel” to which the chakras are attached by an “energy string,” or Nadi.

However, the actual disc-shaped chakra is in front and just outside the physical body.

It is at a distance of approximately 2-3 centimeters.

This corresponds with the level of the energetic body.

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The seven different chakras and how they feel

1. Muladhara

  • Name: The Root Center.
  • Location: Perineum.
  • Sensation: Grounded and heavy.

2. Svadhistana:

  • Name: The Sacral Center.
  • Location: Above the pubic bone.
  • Sensation: Watery and sensual.

3.  Manipura:

  • Name: The Naval Center.
  • Location: Navel.
  • Sensation: Fiery and dynamic.

4. Anahata:

  • Name: The Heart Center.
  • Location: In the middle of the chest.
  • Sensation: Loving and intimate.

5. Vishudda:

  • Name: The throat center.
  • Location: In the suprasternal notch of the throat.
  • Sensation: Spacey and ethereal.

6. Ajna:

  • Name: The third eye center.
  • Location: In the middle of the forehead.
  • Sensation: Clear and sublime.

7. Sahasrara:

  • Name: The crown center.
  • Location: On top of the head.
  • Sensation: Bliss and ecstasy.

How to experience energy orgasm

You may experience some subtle sensations as you learn to regulate the flow of life-force energy through the body and the chakra system.

You can even have orgasms on the different chakras.

A so-called “chakra orgasm.”

For example, an orgasm on Manipura might express itself as a sudden burst of uncontrollable laughter.

In contrast, an orgasm on Svadhisthana might involve a lot of tears.

An orgasm on Muladhara might invoke raw screaming and shouting.

There are valid and time-tested guidelines that can significantly help you navigate through the process of energy orgasm.

Ultimately, though, it all depends on how you can experience it.

Do not stress over the details. Instead, focus on your own embodied experience and discover your truth.

Learn to be present in the moment with all your senses fully.

  • Breath.
  • Movement.
  • Sound.
  • Taste.
  • Smell.

Preparing for your energetic journey

In preparation for this journey, you first need to forget everything you previously knew about orgasms.

Or thought you knew.

You need to forget everything you ever saw in adult content films.

Adult content creates unrealistic expectations about intimacy, masculine and feminine energy, and the experience of blissful release.

Reduce your intake of adult content.

If possible, consider quitting adult content altogether.

Releasing sexual energy blocks

To start – ensure there is a free flow of energy.

The free flow can only occur if the body is free from constraining energy blocks.

These blocks can occur on both a physical and energetic level.

Yoga Asanas and bodywork practices can help with physical blocks.

Pranayama and breathing practices can help with the energetic level.

When the preparatory work has been done, your body will feel more open and relaxed.

You then have the foundation set to start experiencing an energy orgasm yourself.

Orgasmic Breathing Exercises

To cause a stir of orgasmic energy in your body, start with breathing exercises.

Here's one of my guided tantric breathing practices you could try:

But more importantly, you need to learn how to breathe up through all the chakras.

Here's how.

Take deep breaths all the way down to the stomach and core of your body...

...all the while moving your body in swirling motions and using your mind to direct the energy.

A key point to remember; energy follows thought – energy flows where your mind goes.

- Steffo Shambo

Use the power of your mind to move this energy up to the heart.

Bridge the sacral chakra with the heart chakra.

This will result in a more profound experience where erotic sex is united with connected intimacy.

For this reason, if you have sexual intimacy issues, working on your energetic field might be an excellent place to start healing them.

When this union occurs, the pleasure of the energy orgasm will increase 10-fold.

It can now radiate out from the heart, shooting out to the peripheries of the whole body.

energy flows where your mind goes

Once this connection has been established, you can stay here for a while. Stay here until you feel you are capable of moving to the next level.

The next level would move higher up to the throat chakra.

At this stage, it’s important to be expressive with sounds.

Don’t hold back on expressing yourself or your pleasure.

That can also be a limitation to how well you will activate the energy orgasm.

To make this stage easier, you can chant mantras, hum consonants, or even say the name of the chakras.

Speaking loving words to your partner will also work.

Side-effects of releasing your life-force energy

Releasing energy constraints sometimes results in unwanted side effects that can manifest themselves in different ways:

  • Crying in sadness or joy.
  • Irrational Anger.
  • Anxiety xand irritation.
  • Forgotten memories can surface.

This is because emotions and memories are bottled up, and when tension is released, these emotions shower the body.

It is essential to be available for that experience, to accept it, and let yourself feel it.

If you truly immerse yourself in the moment, it will last no longer than 30 seconds to a couple of minutes.

the more you open to let the universal life-force

For example, if you feel sadness arising, maybe seemingly out of nowhere, embrace this feeling by getting into it.

If you need to release it by crying it out, let yourself do it.

If you find yourself in this purifying moment, remember that it is short-lived and part of the process.

View this as a way to shed unwanted layers and discover your one truth.

The more layers you shed, the closer you get to your authentic, intimate self-expression.

The more you open up and allow the universal life-force energies to flow through you, the more joy and happiness you channel into the world.

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What does an energy orgasm feel like? 

While everyone I have talked to who has mastered the energy orgasm tells me of different experiences.

So, we all have unique sensations and perspectives on how it feels.

And it will also differ between men and women.

But there are some commonalities in the energy orgasm experience.

While some experience specific body parts, most people experience a sensation throughout their being.

Typically, the energy originates in the lower body or pelvic floor area and then radiates throughout the body.

It is not so much of a physical sensation as you would expect from a regular orgasm. But rather a subtle body sensation.

It can feel like a wavelike motion as the energy moves in the energy body. Many times, it is channeled upward through the spine and into the brain.

How does sexual energy feel?

  • Electricity runs through the body.
  • Goosebumps on the skin.
  • Uncontrollable laughter.
  • Emotional release of repressed emotions.
  • A strong mind-body connection.
  • Activation of the subtle bodies.
  • A sense of oneness with God.
  • New mindblowing sexual orgasms.

What if I feel no energy at all?

Patience is vital when it comes to experiencing energy orgasms.

You might get lucky and have unique sensations from the get-go, or it might take a few times to get it right.

Practice makes perfect.

Or, more accurately, practice makes progress.

Focus on doing the preparatory work, and you will soon find yourself well on your way.

This profound healing experience is well worth the effort and patience.

practice heroically

Women tend to tap into these subtle feelings of energy naturally.

Women are usually more connected to the emotional body and use more of their right brain hemisphere.

Men tend to find it as difficult as learning a new language since they focus more on logic and problem-based reasoning.

Men are also exposed to the social conditioning of the machismo culture, where boys are thought to “man up” from a very young age.

This results in a lot of adult men being distant from their emotions on a subconscious level.

Being aware of and accepting these issues is the first step in trying to overcome them and better contemplate your relationship with your emotions.

As such, it might take consistent practice for some people to develop this skill.

From my experience, anyone can get to a place of emotional content, where not only are they truly able to experience powerful energy orgasms but also experience blissful enhancements in all pleasurable activities.

Even if they are the most walled-off, block-headed, masochistic people alive.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the journey to experiencing a full-body energy orgasm is an exciting and transformative one.

Unlike traditional sexual orgasms, this phenomenon encompasses the entire body, transcending physical limitations.

What's truly remarkable is that it doesn't necessarily require an intimate encounter to be awakened.

Drawing inspiration from the five 'bodies' of yoga – the physical, energetic, emotional, mental, and spiritual – we encourage you to view orgasmic sensations from a new perspective.

By honing your sensitivity to subtle feelings and embracing mindfulness practices such as meditation, you can unlock profound experiences.

Understanding the chakra system is vital for enhancing your energetic sensitivity.

Each chakra carries distinct sensations and emotions, making exploring and balancing these energy centers essential.

To embark on this journey, practice my breathing exercises and gain mastery over energy flow control.

Begin with preparatory work, releasing unrealistic sexual expectations, and removing energy blocks through yoga asanas, bodywork, and pranayama.

Finally, remember that patience is vital. Becoming a great lover in bed requires time and dedication, just like anything else worth learning.

While women may naturally tap into these sensations more easily, men can achieve this transformation with dedication and practice.

Your body holds immense potential—unlock, embrace, and let the sacred energy flow.

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Energy Orgasm FAQ

How do you raise your kundalini energy?

Through specific techniques from Tantra. Light tapping or stimulation of the base of the spine can raise the kundalini. Extremely stressful experiences can also cause kundalini to rise. If you want to work on raising your life force energy, you must first heighten the sensitivity of your energy body.

How do you perform tantric breathing?

Breathe deeply into your core. Meanwhile, move your body in a swirling motion—like a whirlpool. This is a meditative practice that can move a lot of energy through your root chakra and solar plexus.

Can you clear up the difference between an energy orgasm and a valley orgasm?

The valley orgasm from Taoist philosophy is a kind of energy orgasm. An energy orgasm does not, however, necessarily have to be a valley orgasm.

What is sex magic and how does orgasm play a part in it?

Sex magic is a ritual whereby an orgasmic state is invoked and used to manifest one’s deepest desires. This orgasmic state does not need to be sexual.

What is the best position to have an energy orgasm?

Anyone! It doesn't matter which sex position you are in to experience an energy orgasm. When you get good at having energy orgasms, you can do it in whatever sex pose you desire. However, for beginners, it may be helpful to be in a position where you can maintain eye contact with your partner.

Steffo Shambo

Steffo Shambo

Men's Tantric Relationship Coach

I help men deepen their intimacy and strengthen their relationships through my signature coaching program, The Tantric Man Experience™. After years of self-doubt and unfulfilling relationships, I found my direction meditating in a bamboo hut in India. Since then I've spent over 15 years refining the art of intimacy, completed 1,500+ hours of certified tantra training in India and Thailand, and coached more than 600 men worldwide. I write for The Good Men Project, and journalists at VICE, The Sun and Fatherly come to me for expert commentary.

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