I’m Steffo Shambo, The Best Dating Coach In Los Angeles For Men

I help guys attract true love with their dream woman within 9 weeks, even if they have been single and lonely for years.

Dating Coach Los Angeles

Isn’t it interesting how busy you are working on your career and making steady progress, yet your love life could be the opposite?

If you’re looking for the best dating coach in Los Angeles (LA) for men, you deserve someone who understands your situation. I’m talking about someone with a proven track record of helping single guys find love. 

You deserve a dating coach who can: 

  • Show you how to attract women without pretending to be someone you’re not.
  • Help you develop admirable confidence to naturally dominate social settings and make others want to win your approval.
  • Walk you through mastering your sexual power and energy to increase passion tenfold. 

To catch fish, you ask the fisherman—not the fish.🐟 

And that’s why you’re on this page, finding me 😉

But what works for an outgoing, extroverted male may not work for an introverted, shy guy. 

That’s what my holistic program is for. You’ll learn from someone who will give you a starting point based on your current situation.

Hear from Victor, a normal guy who went from lonely to getting multiple dates

“I went on six dates with four women in 9 weeks without feeling afraid of rejection anymore. And becoming so comfortable to be able to sex-chat and receive nude pics. For me, this is invaluable.”

- Victor Leme, Brazil, Meditation Teacher


I’ve helped hundreds of men see massive transformations

Zander testimonial

“Before joining the program I did a lot of therapy. I had 4 therapist, went to AA meetings, mediated and ran 5-10 miles per day. It would help me keep sane, but it wasn’t tackling the core problem.”

Zander Blunt, USA
Moses testimonial

“Joining TME literally changed my life, and it’s one of the best decisions of my life. The program completely changed my view on relationships, and is the most comprehensive, deepest program. You’ll not regret it. It will be the most significant self-improvement task you have achieved. It only goes up from here”

Moses Michalovich, Israel
Jake testimonial

“I believed I would never find a woman, so for the past 10 years I did not go on any dates. What happened though the program was a transformation about my personal view of my life, sexuality, relationships, and intimacy. And I ended up going on 3 dates with 3 different women.”

Jake Frankel, USA
Freddy testimonial

“I only went on 1 date in my life 5 years ago, now I have dated a few women and even had sex. It changed my whole life, my view on women, self-worth, and self-confidence. I turned 30 last year, and I feel like my life has just started. That’s the difference it made for me.”

Freddy Herre, Austria
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Women look at me differently, I am more confident, more horny, more masculine, more yogic, more disciplined, more loving, and more clear on my mission, all as a result of this program.

Jacob Reid, USA
victor testimonial

“I went on 6 dates with 4 women in 9 weeks without feeling afraid of rejection anymore. And becoming so comfortable to be able to sex-chat and receive nude pics. For me, this is invaluable.”

Victor Leme, Brazil
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I’ve noticed already, things are happening in my life, things are falling into place – It almost seems like magic! Every day I can activate this superhuman power inside of me. Full of energy, confidence, and vitality.

Jamie McConochie, UK
Zander testimonial

“Half way through (the program) she could notice a difference in how I looked, how I acted, there’s was this sort of magnetism and curiosity. I suddenly was getting in tuned with different energies and frequencies in the body.”

Zander Blunt, USA
jon Client testimonial

“My relationship with my wife has transformed into something completely unexpected. It’s not only that her feminine energy can sense the change in me. I think she sees that I see myself changing, and because of that, I’m taking control of my own energy and learning to cultivate it. I was coming into this thinking, “Oh, I am going to get more sex” (which did happen), but this experience has flipped my perspective of sex and love on its head.”

Jon Mizuno, Japan
Big Tom

“Doing the fundamental practice every day for 12 weeks manifested the exact same girl I was visualizing into reality. I have all the tools now to get wherever I want to!!! Thanks, TME and Steffo Shambo”

Thomas Schirnhofer, Austria
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For me it meant a paradigm shift in life, both mentally and in practice. How to understand being a masculine man in a relationship and at the same time a loving and understanding partner, who can meet my woman on the same level where she is, to be relaxed and happy.

Patrik Wall, Sweden

The dating scenes in Los Angeles might leave you lost in the sauce

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Dating can be hard when you live in a city like LA.


  • Endless swiping, yet hardly any matches
  • Superficial relationships where everything seems to be about money and status
  • There is no genuine spark or connection

It’s no wonder why dating can feel hopeless in LA.

You might convince yourself it’s pointless unless you’re a millionaire or someone with millions of followers.  

Well, that’s not always the case. 

No matter where you are, there will be a good woman around.

Unfortunately, you might not be the one who catches their eye or attention. 

Working with a dating coach can help you improve your chances of finding the right match and someone compatible for a long-term relationship. 

If you’re ready to attract true love in a matter of weeks and take your dating game to the next level, then sign up for my free attraction training program.

More than half of men feel insecure about themselves

You could be doing well compared to the average man globally. Yet, you might still feel insecure about yourself.

Pew Research Center hits the nail on the head:

64% of men say they have felt insecure because of the lack of messages they received, while four-in-ten women say the same.

You don’t have to have the same physique as Lebron James, the aesthetic of Bruno Mars, or the wit of Kevin Hart and Adam Sandler

The truth is, any “ordinary” guy can attract beautiful women who appreciate an authentic man. 

Feeling insecure is normal, but staying stuck isn’t. 

My dating coaching program will equip you with all the tools and strategies to attract your dream woman. 

To become irresistible and charming, the transformation must start from withinI’ll show you how.

“I ended up going on 3 dates in person with 3 different women. I feel accomplished, like a weight lifted, I have more self-love, and I finally see women from a healthy place, my life is changing in high speed.”

- Jake Frankel, New York USA

The 5-step attraction system from the best dating coach in Los Angeles (free training)

This 5-step attraction system will teach you how to:

  1. 1Take charge of your love life and steer it in the direction you want
  2. 2Immediately bring out your best self and boost attraction points
  3. 3Overcome the emotional baggage that could be holding you back
  4. 4Naturally charm beautiful women
  5. 5Guarantee that you make progress

You will learn from one of the best relationship coaches for men online—all from the comfort of your own home.

There is no need to worry about the notorious traffic jams in LA when meeting in person.

Online sessions allow you to work around your busy schedule.

A dating coach for men online is just like a dating coach in person for anyone else. All in all, they’re dating experts who can help you develop and improve your dating strategies.

What separates me from any other dating coach in Los Angeles is that:

You’ll learn to master your masculine and sexual energy so that you can willingly channel it in your dating life

We’ll focus on transforming every aspect of your being, from physical to spiritual

You’ll identify blind spots and the root cause of your dating problems so that you’ll never stop yourself from having the love and sex life you want

This isn’t just another therapy session where you’ll talk to me about your problems. 

We’re going to explore your trauma and root cause and heal it. 

You also won’t just be getting sex techniques or dating tactics. You’ll take the fastest natural course to manifest your dream relationship. 

Get personal support to succeed in the LA dating world from someone who’s walked the walk

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LA has a range of dating coaches, so how do you choose the right one? 

Many coaches indeed offer valuable advice. 

But here’s why working with me might be the best decision for you:

💪 The Male Experience:

I’m not just talking out of my ass. I’ve walked the walk and had my fair share of trauma and hardships as a man in the dating scene. If you’re curious, you can read about my journey here.

🏆 Transformations Across All Levels:

I go beyond the typical advice. My FLT method is a holistic approach designed to transform men across the entire spectrum of being. You’ll master everything from building confidence to the art of sex and communication.

Rapid Results in a Busy City:

Time is precious. Therapy could take months and years before you see results. My program is designed to help you see lasting changes as quickly as possible. 

Above all, I have a proven track record of over a decade of helping men succeed in their romantic lives.  

From lonely guys who cannot date and say a word to men who are leaders and taking control of their lives, the community of men at Tantric Academy continues to grow.

Ultimately, the choice is yours. 

But if you’re looking for a coach who understands men’s challenges in LA and can help you get rapid results, I invite you to learn more about my free training.

Conquer your dating life in LA now with a Los Angeles dating coach

I’m a big advocate for getting support from another male dating coach who has been through the process he teaches himself. 

Not that other coaches in the dating world are bad, but the thing is: 

👧 A female dating coach gives you an interesting perspective. She can share things from a woman’s point of view, but it’s challenging to teach about how to be a man with testosterone and having male genitalia when you’re right-brain (female) dominant. 

😎 Good-looking male dating coaches who focus on helping other high-status men might not see the same results when working with the average Joe. After all, what works for one man won’t always work for another. 

Seeking help in your love and dating life is a power move, not a weakness.

If you want the best dating coach in Los Angeles to share the personal process they’ve gone through to achieve success and help hundreds of other men do the same, then this is your calling for my free dating coaching program.


Dating Coach Los Angeles FAQ

What is a dating coach for men?

A dating coach for men (like me) is your wingman who goes beyond pick-up lines.

I don’t set you up for success by approaching the woman for you and telling her, “Hey! My friend over there thinks you’re cute. You should go talk to him.”

Hell no—that’s awful. 🙈 She’ll only turn around and look at you awkwardly, thinking, “Why wouldn’t he approach me himself?” 

Anyway, that’s beside the point.

Dating coaching helps you navigate your love and dating life.

They’ll help you develop the skills, qualities, and confidence to attract amazing women who dig you for who you indeed are. 

You don’t need to follow the lone wolf path and try to fix everything yourself. Most men do this and refuse to seek help because they don’t want to be seen as weak. 

And unfortunately, that’s why most men suffer in silence.

They don’t reach out and admit that they need support. 

I’m here to change that notion and be the big brother for men who aren’t happy with their love lives. 

I’m inviting you to contact me anytime.

It’s okay, and I will not judge you. 

After all, I’ve been there myself.

From facing countless rejections and not feeling good enough to spending hours creating an online dating profile, I know how it feels.

And I know exactly how you feel and how to get out of it.

That’s why I’m confident I can help you, too, like the hundreds of men who contacted me. 

What does a dating coach do?

Firstly, do you ever feel like LA’s dating scene is stuck on repeat?

Are you struggling to connect with amazing women or keep getting caught in the same cycle?

That’s where a dating and relationship coach comes in. 

Not all dating coaching sessions are the same.

However, I’ll answer this question about how I help my clients:

  • Unleash your inner confidence—you won’t feel shy or invisible anymore. We’ll tap into your masculine energy, unlock your innate leadership DNA, and build self-confidence. All of these will help you naturally attract women like magnets.

  • Heal past hurts and trauma—identify your love blind spots, limiting beliefs, and energetic blockages. These all hold you back from living your best relationship.

  • Break toxic patterns—say goodbye to the same frustrating situations you are in. Say hello to healthy, fulfilling relationships.

We’ll ditch the dating app fatigue and focus on the real you. 

Dating coaches are your love experts who help you succeed in your dating life. 

If you struggle with:

  • Finding true love (and it feels impossible)
  • Overcoming certain dating challenges 
  • Nonverbal communication and body language
  • Low confidence and self-esteem issues

Then, this is for you. 

And if you’ve had a dry, dead, or non-existent sex life, that’s what a dating coach is for 😉

No more heartbreaks. Imagine attracting high-quality women in an ideal dating scenario.

They are all drawn to the authentic you. 

If you’re ready to stop imagining and finally rewrite your dating story?

📞 Let’s chat!

Is it worth hiring a dating coach?

It depends on your dating and relationship goals.

If you get a professional dating coach who uses a holistic approach that can unleash your full potential as a man…

Then dating coaching is worth it.

If you’re tired of running around in circles and want to see results sooner rather than later, and you want to see changes now, then dating coaching can be worth it. 

Instead of asking yourself whether dating coaching is worth it, ask yourself this: 

  • How much more time do you want to waste not living the life you want?
  • Are you sick and tired of not already living a fulfilling love and dating life?
  • Have you had enough of constantly redoing your online dating profile? 

If you’re not making any changes in your dating life now, then when will you? 

Are you convinced you can do it alone because you don’t want to invest in yourself? Then how much time are you willing to pay? 

A happy, long-term relationship doesn’t fall out of the sky.

For many, online dating doesn’t improve their dating life. 

Therefore, if you haven’t tried it before and want different results, you must do something different. If that resonates, I suggest giving dating coaching a shot. 

Can a dating coach help me?

I can confidently say that a dating coach can help you accelerate your progress. 🚀

I wish I had met my mentors sooner. 


So they could show me the ropes and guide me to success earlier. If that had happened, I wouldn’t have made as many mistakes and would’ve achieved a lot more. 

Well, sh*t happens. I don’t regret it. 

But if I had to do it all over again, one of the first things I would do is search for the right coach. 

Look, I spent over 15 years deep-diving into this stuff. 

With over 1500 hours of certified training in India and Thailand (think yoga, Tantra, intimacy, trauma, the whole package), let me tell you this: 

Therapy can be great, but it can take forever. 

My clients (guys just like you!) often report feeling a shift within days. 

Aleksander said, “I started on Saturday, and on Sunday, I already reported that something had changed in my relationship.” 

And his girlfriend Ula even said, “Things started to change from day one.”

All great men agree that they achieved success because they rested on the shoulders of other great men already there.

I am the brotherly dating coach who can help you shortcut spending years in therapy and see success in a matter of weeks.

So, going back to the question—yes, as a seasoned dating coach, I can help you! ❤️

What questions should I ask a dating coach?

Here are some of the best questions to ask:

  • What are my current subconscious beliefs about love and relationships?
  • Why have I not found true love yet?
  • What is the invisible force holding me from getting the love I desire and want?
  • Why does it seem like I thrive in all areas except my love life?
  • What are the neurotic holding patterns you can see in my personality?
  • What are the habitual love patterns that you can reflect on me?
  • Why do I always fall into the friend zone?
  • Why can’t I seem to have intense masculine energy around me that naturally attracts awesome women like bees to a flower?

Who is the best dating coach in Los Angeles?

You’ve already found the best Los Angeles dating coach—you’re on his page! 😉

Look, if you’re a man ready to ditch the frustration and attract high-quality women who dig the real you, then here’s why I’m your perfect wingman: 

You won’t just be working with another dating coach. 

You’ll be getting personal support from a dating AND tantra expert. 🤝

I’ve helped hundreds of guys go from shy and single to confident daters, attracting multiple women in just weeks.

But I get it.

I’m not for everyone. 

Only those serious about finding lasting love will see the best and fastest results working with me. 

Let me put it another way.

Think of me as the big brother you never had, with much love, who will hold you accountable until you transform like my previous clients.

Quite simply, you can’t fail.

I’ll walk you through every step until you become the type of man who naturally and effortlessly attracts women.

I want you to have a successful dating life.

How do I find the right dating coach?

Here’s how to find your dating wingman who gets results:

🚀 Know your current situation.

First, what’s holding you back?

Do you need help with confidence, building rapport, or understanding women?

Knowing your dating strengths and weaknesses will help you choose a coach with the proper techniques.

🚀 Look at the coach’s experience.

Skip the Bali bro with the “instant fix” promises. 🤙

Look for a coach who’s proven to have helped men like you.

Do they have tons of happy clients rocking vibrant love lives?

That’s a good sign.

🚀 Check for authenticity.

Beware of shady pick-up artist tactics.

A real dating coach focuses on building genuine connections, not cheesy lines.

My FLT method, for example, combines tantric practices with coaching.

It’s all about unlocking your inner confidence so that you can attract women naturally.

🚀 Check the success stories.

Read client reviews like how you’d browse Yelp for the best taco reviews.

Get a feel for the coach’s approach and success rate.

You don’t need to know everything, but having a direction helps you find the best possible answer. 

Finding the right coach is like finding the perfect wingman for a night out.

You want someone who understands the scene, knows the right moves, and helps you score big.

With the proper criteria, you’ll be well on your way to finding your perfect dating partner.

Do online dating coaches work?

Absolutely! 💯

Online dating coaching can be a game-changer, especially when you find the right fit.  

I wouldn’t be here and put the effort into creating this page if it didn’t work.

You had to find this page so that you know where one of the best dating coaching programs is.

I wouldn’t share this unless I knew I could help you see results. 

You can explore my website and even check out the success stories.

These are real men who have seen transformations.

I’m sure you’ll resonate with at least one of their stories, although there are many. 

How much is a dating coach on average?

The cost of working with a dating coach can vary widely from $100 up to $10,000 or even more. Several factors must also be considered, such as the coach’s experience and location. 

Let’s use some of my rates, for example: 

💰 Free training.

At entry level, I offer a free dating masterclass that all men can take on their own time.

(No, this has nothing to do with creating an online dating profile. This teaches you the foundation to succeeding in love as a man.)

💰 Affordable training courses.

Next, I offer on-demand intro courses starting from as little as $27. 🤯

These are for those on a tight budget. 

💰 Private coaching.

Interested in working with me closely?

My private coaching sessions start from $1,000 per month. 💎

It may seem expensive compared to inexperienced coaches and traditional therapy sessions. 

But focus on value, not just cost. 

How long would it take to see transformations working with inexperienced coaches or traditional therapists? 

At best, it may take months or even years—and no results are guaranteed. 

The best of the best who can ensure you get results aren’t cheap.

If you could get a top-tier coach who can help you find love and transform for the rest of your life within weeks, how would it not be worth it? 

As Warren Buffet says, “The best investment you can make is in yourself.” 

Investing in your happiness could be the most critical decision you ever make. 

Imagine positive mental health, sexual fulfillment, and a loving relationship with the woman of your dreams. 

You can’t put a price tag on that. 

Are all dating coaches the same?

There are all sorts of coaches you can find with different frameworks. My program is available for all men regardless of location. 

What many of my clients appreciate about working with me is that my love coaching sessions are custom-tailored based on your situation and location, whether that’s in: 

No matter where you are, I’ll help you navigate your love life through natural, ancient practices that stand the test of time. Master the basic dating principles; you won’t struggle with experiencing love.