Poem: The Conscious Man Does Not Open Her Through Orgasm

Steffo Shambo

Updated on Aug 22, 2022
The Conscious Man Poem

The conscious man poem

He is a conscious man
who sees beyond her beauty
of body and flesh,
into his lover’s inner world
of fervent emotions.
Before making love to her,
he makes love to her mind,
and penetrates her heart
with his fierce presence.

He is a conscious man who understands
that he does not need his woman to complete him;
his beloved is a powerful force on her own
that adds to his already completeness.
He is not there to take from her.
He is there to serve his unconditional lovin’.
He is a reverent devotee to the Divine Feminine.

He is a conscious man
who realizes that the way to open her
is not through orgasm,
but through giving the trust – for her surrender.
He rejoices in the pleasure expressed by her body’s openness.
He breathes the desire deeply
into his own body,
letting it magnify and move
throughout its entirety
surpassing the trap
of the genitals
and head’s entanglement.


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Artfully, he uses his breath to feel from his heart –
and into hers,
together uniting their hearts’ love
into the world,
feeling the expansion of combined consciousness
penetrating the whole universe.

I am a conscious man
forever in service to you,
my beloved.

by Steffo Shambo


Steffo Shambo

Steffo Shambo

Men's Relationship Coach

Steffo is the founder of The Tantric Man Experience, the #1 masculine mentorship program in the world. There he helps men in relationships reignite the passion to restore their marriages from the brink of divorce. And single men attract their dream women naturally with success. He's on a mission to guide men towards an intimate and meaningful relationship, and end the war with their sexuality, so they can finally become integrated men, fathers, brothers, husbands, and leaders in the world.

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