Poem: The Conscious Man Does Not Open Her Through Orgasm

Steffo Shambo

Updated on Aug 11, 2023
Conscious Man

The conscious man poem

He is a conscious man
who sees beyond her beauty
of body and flesh,
into his lover’s inner world
of fervent emotions.
Before making love to her,
he makes love to her mind,
and penetrates her heart
with his fierce presence.

He is a conscious man who understands
that he does not need his woman to complete him;
his beloved is a powerful force on her own
that adds to his already completeness.
He is not there to take from her.
He is there to serve his unconditional lovin’.
He is a reverent devotee to the Divine Feminine.

He is a conscious man
who realizes that the way to open her
is not through orgasm,
but through giving the trust – for her surrender.
He rejoices in the pleasure expressed by her body’s openness.
He breathes the desire deeply
into his own body,
letting it magnify and move
throughout its entirety
surpassing the trap
of the genitals
and head’s entanglement.


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Artfully, he uses his breath to feel from his heart –
and into hers,
together uniting their hearts’ love
into the world,
feeling the expansion of combined consciousness
penetrating the whole universe.

I am a conscious man
forever in service to you,
my beloved.

by Steffo Shambo


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Steffo Shambo is the founder of The Tantric Man Experience. The #1 masculine mentorship program in the world, where he’s helping men master confidence, sexuality, & purpose to reignite the passion in their relationship or attract a meaningful relationship. He’s on a mission to spread a conscious sexual revolution for men worldwide so that they can show up as integrated partners, fathers, and leaders.

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